My husband always puts his family first. The post Why I threw away old photos of my Husband’s late wife – Reddit User appeared first on BellaNaija. Could you tell us what exactly you are missing from the marriage, aside from the fact that being single is hard work? Or undiagnosed BPD. "Late Bishop of Fyfe, but now of Drum." Continue to go to therapy. Eldest says she wants a larger social circle. If your spouse is beating you or threatening you or your children then of course get out and fast. She sounds awful and he deserves someone so much better. My husband made sure to provide us all that we could possibly ask for and I … I destroyed a man who looking back was a great husband. He said that the pain has been too much for too long and that if we got back together that I might just turn around and do it to him again. The more I posted the more validation that I got. The worst was the night that I came home at a reasonable time and found that he had cleaned the whole house, cooked the whole family dinner and picked out a movie for all of us to watch together. I helped her through finishing her education. And we were tight. And while she says she feels “awful” over the baby name debate, she is adamant she won’t name her new daughter after her husband’s late spouse. 'Always with me': Céline Dion honors late husband on anniversary of his death Celine Dion posted a touching message to late husband Rene Angelil on the third anniversary of his death. A 37-year-old man has consulted Reddit on whether he is wrong for not wanting to move his late wife’s urn to make his new fiancée happy. But if he doesn't respond well to that and he continues acting like a child without responsibilities to take care of at home, try that experiment. I ended up in her office 2 and sometimes 3 times a week, and the more that I talked to prove that I was right, the more that I started to see how wrong I was. XH didnt ask for much besides to not get divorced and to try to work it all out. 9.Your husband seems to have suddenly turned caring and keeps calling to ask where you are. But now she regrets it and has been dropping hints at getting back together. The best thing you can do is to let him go and hope that he can find some sort of new normal and happiness for himself if you care for him at all. Sorry for the off topic rant, but I had to dogpile on the above. I really wasnt interested in fixing our marriage, but i mostly ended things with the other guy but only because i knew i could get it back if I wanted it. He was broken, but I was free. Learn from it. Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. Over the next month or two from that night it did not matter what he did. If your husband is always angry, your husband may be stressed out. He said that he always thought that I would realize how much he loved me and stop up until i signed the divorce papers and let out a big over exaggerated sigh of relief. Enjoy your day off. Contributors to this sub are going through a divorce, have been through one, or are contemplating the decision. We never had a lot of money but with my promotion I was now making more than he was. I was tired of being unhappy and I was doing this for me. I was in your husband's situation. I even pretended that I didnt care when he found out about my relationship with the guy from work. This is advice for men and women. I asked him about getting back together. You have the ability to be a positive influence on that dynamic and I would strongly recommend that that be where you concentrate your efforts . Some people are just garden variety assholes. When I would get home I would find clean dishes and laundry and even dinner sometimes. This is a moderated thread. Late people always aim to arrive to the minute, leaving no room for contingency. I watched a few videos. I wish all of you well and hope that you will give your marriages a second chance. After thinking cohabitation might be possible, we're now realizing that we need to figure out how to afford two households and go on. Buckle up, Dear Readers, because you are in for quite a ride. Some of us initiated our divorce, others were "dumped." Don't lie to them. There was also rarely a single clean dish and the laundry sat in piles so long that I had to start doing the sniff test to see if it could be worn again. He seems least interested in sex and always says that he is either tired or has a bad headache. The things they described as 'narcissistic' were mostly mundane behaviors that just about everyone does at some point in their daily lives. I really started to resent him and I pulled away from him. She lamented her cheating, her cruelty, her constant fault-finding, but mostly she said she missed my friendship and could we please try again. After about 2 thousand dollars of therapy sessions I learned that my XH had his faults, but I figured out that mine were so much worse. He'll be more conscious and apologetic and he'll be better about showing you the respect you deserve. And seeing your husband broken and your children never happy because of your actions is the most painful experience that I can imagine. Husband works CRAZY hours and always has. A mutual friend was sending me screenshots of her posts and it broke my heart. Keep working on yourself. If he's made clear that he doesn't want to get back together, don't keep bugging him to. Mostly the videos seem like women complaining that certain men do not share their vision of the world or the way people are supposed to act. If you really are sorry, tell him you’re sorry. Life isn't always greener, but you can't force someone to see that. I'm not sure how much more the man could have done to make me happy besides finding a job that paid enough for me to not have to work at all. In my experience, men learn by example. My heart and my soul, my self worth were tied up in our marriage and she destroyed all of it. I'm usually always home within 15 mins of when I say I'll be. Take your sweet time. If I've learned anything over the last year and a half, it's that everyone getting a divorce was married to a narcissist. But here's my real point: what is it about women wanting a divorce because they are not "happy." If you can't be nice go elsewhere. It’s interesting that in the examples given, the one with ADHD is a man and the one without is a woman. I have and will continue to remove posts and ban users where appropriate. He would get so upset with how I was treating him and I would just wait and egg him on into losing it because i knew it would happen eventually. You made a series of really big mistakes. He said that he was looking, but looking and finding are 2 different things. For real. Perceptions of unpunctual people are almost always negative — even if misguided. What I mean by reconciling is that you should make an effort to repair your overall relationship as it stands. He always let me know how much he loved me." I know it's just a couple hours but it's the lack of communication, punctuality and respect that bugs me. Life isn’t always easy when both you and your husband are called Paul McCartney. If your comment is two words and the second one is "you" I'm going to remove it. One night he took out the garbage and brought it to the curb because it was garbage night and I forgot again. May I suggest r/eyebleach. It broke me. This person just went on a week long "family vacation" with her ex, but describes him as a "gaslighting, emotionally abusive narcissist" and then says their child needs to see them as a team. Its hard to say, but my wife had a quick turn around after 5 months of wanting divorce after some household catastrophe and things were the best they've been in years; then 2 months later got more distant and was back on divorce train. I've told him a million times how much I hate being late for things but he just doesn't get it. We'd had our issues, but we were never abusive and always had love in our home. It made me feel terrible, and then it made me angry that he made me feel that way and by the end of the night I was texting with the other guy. She filed divorce twice on me, the dropped the case both times when I agreed to what she wanted. I did so many awful things and said awful things that I wouldnt want to be with me, but he did. You blamed your husband for most of your unhappiness and ultimately made decisions that negatively impacted yourself and your entire family. I am going through the final steps in separating; trying to have two households while still paying private school tuition seemed impossible. Neither time it was about our relationship, both times it was about my job and hours I was working. You treated him terribly. Since I've talked to him many times about how his childish behaviour bugs me and he never changes I will give him a taste of his own medicine. No matter what happens, you still have a family together and therefore you will always be connected with him on some level. Leaving me for 6 hours alone with the kids isn't fair and it's a lot of work and when you tell me you'll be home at a certain time but then you're hours late, it drives me nuts.". There are some very important things you can do though. I dont blame him. I dont know if I cried as much in my whole life as i did in the first month in her office. I also was having a lot of trouble with work. By Paul and Harvey Taylor-McCartney. This is why we can't have nice things. I continued to use this site and a couple others to validate my feelings and for encouragement to go through with it, and finally it was done. Most nights when I got home they were already getting ready for bed if not already sleeping. I knew that it was wrong but it made me feel so alive, and my husband had not made me feel like that in years. Finally, the third time, I filed for divorce and went through with it. Added October 28, 2017 from Bella Naija. Afternoon edit:. Just getting up and going to the bathroom has been a struggle. I thought at the end of the road we'd be happy and live happily ever after. It leaves a bad taste, but eventually you get over it. I would usually find a way to make him feel even worse. He and they don't deserve to be punished for the choices that you made. Tell him you're going to the store, leave him with the kids and you'll be back in an hour or two then go to the store and the bank and browse home goods and get your nails done and buy yourself lunch and then tell him you'll be home soon when he texts you and asks where you are. pls.help me how to track my husband location coz he always come home late and do want to answer phone if I call him..my email Thread starter sherlyreyes Start date Oct 30, 2014 I could never take her back. I don't want it. A couple weeks ago I went outside with him when he was leaving the house. Thanks. You’ve made your interest clear and the ball will ultimately be in his court. I told her everything that had happened starting with the promotion that I got at work. He said that hurt him more than anything else and that he doesnt know if he can ever trust me again. Today's example. Please dont just take the advice of anyone on this site or any other about getting a divorce. Don't do things like telling the kids that you still love him, and want him to take you back. I used that same thing to justify when I started to talk to another guy at work. She had scratched me on the arm one day, she had started to get physical in her attacks. I had escaped a Prisoner of War camp, never to return. None of what I think matters. I could do whatever I wanted without having to feel any guilt or answer to anybody. There is nothing wrong with trying to talk to your ex about getting back together at some point. I dont blame him. Related Nigerian News. By that I don’t necessarily mean get back together. But do it to him. My oldest is less social and more awkward than he should be, my girls act infantile and like children 2-3 years their junior. Some nights the dishes werent done when I got home or the kids hadnt eaten or whatever else I could think of to be mad at him about. Oh how I longed to hear those words! Did you ever actually apologize to him or your kids? You may not get one. Caption your own images or memes with our Meme Generator. There was nothing scientific or any detached evaluation of the behaviors. For the next couple years things kept getting worse. She is not happy and blames me. We live in a picture-perfect house complete with all the trappings that reflect a comfortable life. Whenever he would tell me that he could get extra hours I would always complain and the less hours he worked the more I complained that he wasnt bringing in enough money. You should be exploring the “why” behind that and taking steps to ensure that you don’t repeat your foolish mistakes. You can’t make your husband take you back. Niharika Konidela Is All Hearts For This Wedding Pic Shared By Husband Chaitanya "I will always be this close to you when you need me," wrote Chaitanya Entertainment Written … Question. We were together 21 years and have 2 kids, 11 and 17. Confessions of a Cheating Wife I was a 28-year old, stay-at-home mother of 7-year-old twins and wife of a successful 35-year old businessman. What did you bring to the relationship with your husband, who, by interpreting your words, brought you unconditional love? He has today off so should be helping. Don't use sex to try and get him back either. I like this suggestion. ", Whatever childhood dreams she hasn't accomplished are because I've held her back. “The situation is horrible, I’m literally losing sleep over this,” she shared on Reddit. And I got nothing out of it. I helped her with her alcoholism. I don't know what to do with him anymore. Become a better you. Iken-Murphy met her late husband Michael Iken on Sept. 11, 1999. He would always come over as soon as he could and he always asked me if i needed anything. If he works all day, then comes home and acts irritable, then he is likely under a lot of pressure. A year after the divorce my ex-wife came to visit the kids and begged for me to talk to her as I was NC on any topic not about the kids. Press J to jump to the feed. Don’t expect a warm reception. I blew my knee 6 weeks ago and have basically been completely incapacitated. Say you need to get to work at 9 a.m. You assume it takes exactly 12 minutes to get to work, so you leave at 8:48. If I could give anyone a piece of advice for divorce it would be to not do it under normal circumstances. This just brings them into the middle of it. Right around 5 years I got a promotion at work and i got it in my head that my XH was dragging me down, or at least holding me back from more success and a better life. I didnt care about that though. This is going to sound petty. I helped her with her depression. She says there is no one else (now) and there is no motivation or reason to think otherwise (no fault state). He always looked so sad when it was time to go. It can add even more pressure if you are a stay at home mom, and he works full time to keep the finances in order. "He...just helped make people happy, he was funny, he was a jokester. No, late people aren’t rude and lazy. That’s partially up to him. I could see that he was trying and occasionally i would let him know, but for the most part I kept being a huge bitch to him for any and all reasons that I could think of. Jonna then gave birth to a daughter, Delanie, in February 2014, and the … The few times I have my kids, I can see the negative impact that the divorce continues to cause in them. This would have made me swoon a couple years earlier, but that night I couldn't even look at him and I pretended to be sick. Don't bring the kids into it! There is one thing FAR more awkward. If he didnt want to be hurt then he would at least try to make me happy. Amanda Kloots is reflecting on her last Christmas with her late husband, Nick Cordero. morbidmommy11/Reddit and Cavan Images/Getty This pregnant woman’s husband and father-in-law will not stop obsessing over the idea that she ‘will’ die during childbirth. Within a few years she was convinced that everyone that disagreed with her was a narcissist. I let her go with the flow and momentum she had with the FB support and whatever delusion she was following. Share this article via facebook Share this article via twitter. The " A couple weeks ago..." paragraph is me, she has told me numerous times that she thinks I am a great husband (as do her friends) and a wonderful father; but "we've grown apart" and she doesn't feel for me like that anymore and won't again. I can tell you from experience, there's absolutely nothing more awkward than to keep getting propositions from someone that you've emotionally cut as many ties from as you can. I was not in favor but saving the private school tuition for her is a game changer. The key is not that you don’t make [huge] mistakes. Way too many removals and bans. Sometimes, if I have to be somewhere at a certain time, I tell him the wrong time to make sure I'm NOT late. Finally after a couple months my friends convinced me to go out on a date. I would have paid any price, made any promise, done anything to try again...but for the divorce. It breaks my heart. I think my husband is having an affair!Our relationship hasn't been right since we moved to our present house, two months ago. Your husband may decide to be coming home late so as to avoid helping you to take care of the children by ensuring they have done their homework, taken a shower, eaten and going to bed on time. Anytime we have a party, appointment, etc. She's had some narcissist issues with her family and joined all these FB groups to help her understand them. Used me for schooling 100 g over the years, I worked full time, she was in school had an affair after treating me like shit, I tried to salvage for 2 years then she took me to the cleaners after I said I would not be just roommates. There was no convenient time for him to be working full time because of my hours, but we also needed the money. You will find both the betrayed spouse and the ones who cheated commenting here. I knew that it would bother him so I started saying that a lot and for everything that I could. That was 4 years ago, she still texts me frequently telling me that she would come back in a heartbeat if I let her. 8.Your husband's libido has suddenly taken a dip and it has been months since both of you had sex. It was an amazing feeling of freedom. She did not agree with me or with any of the encouragment to divorce that I got. When I previously said there is nothing more awkward than than to keep getting propositions to get back together, I was wrong. But pretty much everyone has a personality disorder, if you read these posts. Dear OP, you are asking your ex-husband to return to a POW camp with only the weakest promise got the commandant won't torture and cruelly abused him this time. It didnt last long though. Carol Moffa divorced her husband after 52 years of marriage. Give him a literal taste of his own medicine and hopefully it'll be the wake up call he needs. I've been with the kids for 6 hours. Mine used divorce to try and manipulate me to get what she wanted. That always made me really mad. I started working longer hours and at the same time his hours were cut so he was at home more. We apologize, this video has expired. I think she's having a midlife crisis after being a stay at home mom for a decade and then getting back into the workforce. This sounds like some fantasy thought I have about my wife and her realization post-divorce that she made the wrong choice. You don't share a suite with them and expect good coparenting. to go to, he ALWAYS goes at the last minute and we're ALWAYS late. But, I have to sometimes remind myself that everyone fucks up; sometimes catastrophically. Most seemed to be women who were actually angry at one man in their life. Now 76, she wishes she had done it years earlier. I started posting things about him, from my perspective only, and I got so much positive feedback for how I was feeling that I knew I was right. There are times when your husband may come late from a party or be stuck at work and you become anxious and uneasy unless he gets back safe. Within a few years she was convinced that everyone that disagreed with her was a narcissist. I can’t say he never would, but by your own admission there doesn’t seem to be much of any reason he should. "Where late bloomed the lilacs." Kids are smart, lying to them will cause much more resentment in the long run than being open and honest with them. I spent the rest of the night in bed while he waited on me and checked on me and even made me different food and brought it to me in bed. But then she started spending more time on FB. I deprived my kids of having a great father in the house with them and I took his kids away from him. I'm mid chew right now and if she signed the papers and came back at me, I'd tell her to enjoy her own shit sandwich I'm full. Also, you should attempt to reconcile with your husband. I was so wrong, and now I can see it. Jonna Miller and her husband David, both 20-somethings from Leesburg, Indiana, first started dating in October 2012. And like your husband I can't do it. I was a good husband, I didn't make a lot of money then, and we couldn't afford the house she wanted because she changed jobs and make significantly less to be closer to home and our kids. You have to physically put them in your shoes to make them understand why what they're doing is wrong. Read the rest of the story on Bella Naija. After a few months of my new job it was clear to me that things were not going well at home without me there. My ex did worse. It went pretty smoothly. If your marriage is bad look at yourself first and see if you can make changes. Valerie Bertinelli posts heartbreaking tribute to late ex-husband Eddie Van Halen "I will see you in our next life my love," Bertinelli wrote. Latest Episodes. TikTok is one of the hottest social media platforms but the CEO of Reddit had some harsh words for the popular app, calling it “fundamentally parasitic” at an event Wednesday. I had the whole internet telling me how terrible he is. Do be honest with your kids. Partner always late when hanging out with friends. I saw a few videos on Youtube's home page about Narcissim, and clicked to watch and learn something about the condition. It really didnt matter. Our relationship has had consistent traits which I could manage before our daughter was born, but find myself unable to do so now. If it's attacking the poster in going to remove it. I don't believe that people ever really change, they only regret it when things don't go their way. In my case there was no abuse. Give them the truth, but at a level where they are emotionally able to understand. I did go through with it though, and then later I bragged on here how great it felt. He said that he always thought that I would realize how much he loved me and stop up until i signed the divorce papers and let out a big over exaggerated sigh of relief. It really destroyed me inside to see him holding back tears, but I wasnt going to let him see that. DON'T BE THIS PERSON. One is a baby who is a lot of work. I don't hate women, but after the way my ex treated me during the divorce and the animosity she still shows me 3 years later, I can't even fathom letting her or even the chance of going through that back into my life anymore. It's absolutely maddening. I could almost hear his heart shattering inside his chest. I married my husband 2 years ago and we now have an 8-month-old daughter. After most of the fights we had he would apologize for whatever I told him he did wrong if there even was something, but I never did. Brian Zak. Turns out she had twisted this into a story of me being verbally abusive and shared it with her FB group, to which she received universal and unconditional support and complete encouragement to 'get out while she can'. I did my best to try to make them happy, but I ended up just buying them toys all the time and the happiness only lasted minutes. So I let it happen. Likely alcohol is a factor in him being late. Don’t do that shit again. Second Then: STBXW's parents decide to help STBXW (substantial inherited wealth) so we are finally moving forward. A place for sharing the for-better and for-worse of marriage. I never do this to him. Late, as an adjective or adverb, can mean "of late" or "lately," and can be used to refer to a variety of situations which were true until lately, but no longer are. A week and about a million tears later I was on a therapists couch. I finally gave in and starting calling XH to watch the kids. Fri, 3/6 - Always Late w/ Katie Nolan. My hours weren't any shorter and his were on and off fulltime. The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. Me, our neighbors, her family, MY family. In November the following year, over Thanksgiving dinner, the couple got engaged. ... help Reddit App Reddit coins Reddit premium Reddit gifts. Some divorces involved infidelity. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. This. Yes he'll be upset and overwhelmed and annoyed. I still remember him asking me in the meeting with the lawyer to please not go through with it. I thought he was just a friend but talking at work turned into texting at home and then pictures and videos and then trying to sneak some alone time with him. Within 2 weeks she had gone to the beach with some guy she knew on FB. I have handled several thousand divorce cases; I have never heard a male client say to me he needs a divorce because he is not "happy. And me, the one who pushed for the divorce expecting happiness and a life of freedom, spend all my free time sitting at home or sitting on a therapists couch. I wouldn't take you back. My ex-wife does this to the point where my youngest son comes home and tells me that mommy still loves me, and wants me to let her come back but I won't let her. One of two men who made false corruption allegations against Manpower Minister Josephine Teo and her husband has apologised and taken down the offending post after legal letters were issued to them.. When he looked at me his eyes were full of tears and a couple went down his cheeks. This is getting lots of traffic I'm going to sticky it for a while. Communicate and try to come to a solution together. Just understand that the ultimate answer may be “no.” If it is, you all still have to interact with one another and regardless of what happened, improving yourself will make your whole life better. Unless there's a factor of abuse, I can never understand people who don't attempt 50/50 custody. "You get rid of some things and hold onto some things, and you don't know why," said Christy. After Christy Hester lost her husband, Richard, in January, there was one thing she was having trouble parting with: his glasses. He was wrong just for breathing most days. It wasn't just me who knew that XH wasn't worth keeping around. Getting divorced is not fun. Don't tell them the gritty details like you cheated on him, but do tell them that you had made mistakes that hurt the relationship. A Socially Awesome Awkward Penguin meme. So she divorced me thinking she could somehow afford it herself. For example, if I need to be … We are all here to provide support for each other. You can bet that the next time he goes out with his friends, he's not going to forget about the level of responsibility he's leaving you to deal with alone. I won't let her. Whenever he brought up the contradiction I would tell him that he needed to figure it out. I will never get married again, I can't even stomach a relationship anymore for that matter. Sometimes life serves up a shit sandwich and you either starve and die or take a bite. Then eldest decided she wants to finish out high school at the public school to which we are zoned (and it is an excellent school). She is happy living with affair partner. Edit 2:. My oldest had seen some of the messages from the other guy months earlier and she knew that XH still wanted to try to work it out. I was so confident with mine and everyone elses opinion that I contacted a lawyer and within a couple weeks had filed for divorce. This is emotionally scarring to them, and will make them resent their dad for something that isn't his fault. He told me that he didnt know if he could. Second, work toward being a good mother, a good co-parent with your ex, and a good person. But just last week, an announcement went out that Sarah’s husband had died. Again, talk to him like an adult first. There’s going to be a lot of people on here telling you that they think your ex should never take you back. I used to know the legal term for what your ex is doing, but it escapes me. Being divorced is not fun. I knew that I was right because he was wrong and that was all that mattered to me. He was at his weakest and that was when I chose to tell him that I wanted a divorce. 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